Had dinner with Kelvin's family today, havent properly hanged out with my childhood friend for a while. Anyway, on the way to dinner we were talking about relationships. Funny thing is, he is trying to get his ex. Now here is the story, they lost their virginity to each other and then he dumped her. After their breakup she tries her best to talk to him, but he ignored her. He broke up because he wanted her to do better in hsc, and succeed in life.I secretly hoped that you broke up with me because you didnt want me to be sad anymore... But after my friend had several attempts at dating with other girls, he finds himself still thinking about her. He said there are memories that he can not erase and that no one can replace those memories, like the way they eat mcdonalds together. And now, he misses her, misses everything they had. Maybe, in the back of my head, i just wished that's how it would turn out for us. But moral of his story is, time doesnt always make it better, time might make you realise what you have lost. Possibly lost something that you'll forever regret. I agree with when he said that things wont be the same even if they dated again. It's true, i dreamt my whole life having a second chance with vanny, but it just didnt turn out right, there was nothing there. As cliche and cheesy as i would have sounded, i said to him " if its meant to be, it will be", if you know they are the one, it's just a matter of time before it will happen again. But never, never settle for something you lowered your standards for, keep it high, if they are the one, they will come and sweep you off your feet. Hold on and stay strong to those who are experiencing the same thing.