Mistaken change as moving on.

This is a common mistake, people generally think change is equivalent to moving on. Yes, it may help you in the process of doing so, but does not necessarily mean moving on. The only thing you're fighting against is whats left in your mind, the memories or the feeling of having fallen in love. You're addicted to it, but all of a sudden you are forced to live on with such attachments, only now, you live on by yourself. You may feel lonely, empty or that there is nothing worth living for. Or you can make changes to your life that seemingly makes you believe that you have adjusted your life of being without that significant other half. Changes can range from simply changing your hair colour to moving to a whole new country, but it doesnt matter what you do, because everything you're afraid to face is no longer in the other person, it's within yourself. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything and yes it will hurt, it may hurt a lot, this is only because your heart needs time to adapt to what your mind already knows. As cruel as this could be, you can sit here all day and wonder how you can fall for such lies or how can one be so harsh to what use to be their whole world, well thats maybe because you never really were a part of their world, you're one of stops in his journey to his final destination, he isnt going to reverse the whole train because one person missed their stop. It's time to realise you shouldnt feel this way about someone who doesnt feel the same, because i can tell you, everything gets better. Stay strong through this, cause after this thunderstorm, i guarantee you a clear fine sunny day. I, for one can say i fought through many storms, so many times i've wanted to give up, but i held on, i may not be at my best shape, but im getting there.